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So many brackets today.

23 May

ok i am just wondering, have u ever encountered this scenario where u see this person of the opposite sex, at first look very chio(or handsome). but after u get to noe her(or him) better, she(or he) somehow becomes… not so attractive anymore.

Usually this seems to be caused by the fact that during the process of knowing her(or him), u found out that she(or he) ain’t really your type, or just you feel generally negative about her(or him).

This scenario also applies the opposite way, i.e you may not have met the girl(or guy) before, but you guys talk alot and somehow things just click well, and then end up you might find her(or him) to be pretty(or handsome) when you guys first met, even though others might say otherwise.

Well I guess quotes like ‘beauty is only skin deep’ and ‘don not judge a book by its cover’ holds some significance in this matter.

But really, I still say that if you donnoe how to groom yourself to at least look approachable(or neat,tidy, whatever), chances that you will find someone that don’t mind talking to you is very rare.

The world we live in is 99% superficial. Period.

Back to topic, I find it rather intriguing, as in.. how come such things can happen?

Isit a psychological thing? (actually i bet it is. haha) Is there any research done on such a scenario? Is there a name?

I just find it rather amusing la.

PS: piang so many brackets. I’m a goddamn social conformist!

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2 Comments

Posted by on May 23, 2009 in Thoughts

 

2 responses to “So many brackets today.

  1. gek

    May 23, 2009 at 11:28 AM

    “have u ever encountered this scenario where u see this person of the opposite sex, at first look very chio(or handsome). but after u get to noe her(or him) better, she(or he) somehow becomes… not so attractive anymore”

    – definitely. sometimes the change in opinion happens the minute that person opens his/her mouth.

    “you may not have met the girl(or guy) before, but you guys talk alot and somehow things just click well, and then end up you might find her(or him) to be pretty(or handsome) when you guys first met, even though others might say otherwise”

    – definitely two.

    “I still say that if you donnoe how to groom yourself to at least look approachable(or neat,tidy, whatever), chances that you will find someone that don’t mind talking to you is very rare.”

    – so… have you cut your nails?

     
  2. Khaos

    May 23, 2009 at 1:05 PM

    hahahaha kns. yes Gek. I do cut my nails more frequently now. Thanks for rubbing your silly pet peeves on me.

     

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