I realised, someone has to know me for 7 years, have a conversation/stay in contact with me for almost every single day(naturally of course, not like HI BYE WEE GONEEE! kind) before i can feel like revealing certain private matters in regards to my past life, albeit with slight discomfort and thinking carefully how to phrase the sentences.
Obviously i have no benchmark to judge whether that’s a long or short time for someone to reveal like (according to my estimation) 40% of his private life.. but if you were to ask me, I’ll say that’s long (and 40% to me is ALOT).
There are things I tell him that I don’t even tell those i regard as dear to me(ex-gfs, for example) (and i have absolutely no reason not to, really). Again i do not know whether it is a common thing amongst peeps, but I just feel amazed that I can actually open up so much to anybody.
once again, if i was a girl, i’d have marry him.
Too bad~ hahaha